HOW IT WORKS
Initial meeting with celebrant to determine suitability for your ceremony. If booking follows, a deposit can be made at or before the second meeting
Second meeting to complete and sign the Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) (minimum 1 month and maximum 18 months before the wedding)
Third meeting to discuss your story and ceremony plus signing of the declaration of no impediment to marriage
Fourth meeting is for a rehearsal or finalising ceremony details (including account finalisation)
Fifth is the wedding day
More legal information can be found on the web page Get Married by the Attorney-General's Department
CREATING A CEREMONY
The celebrant is there to guide you through the process. Ceremonies are 1% legal and 99% personalised. Yes there are traditions, not just Western but from many cultures around the world. Below are but a few ideas you may like to consider for your ceremony ...
Part of several cultures around the world, all with their own ways and reasons.
Bringing flames together from separate candles to one, showing the union of two people.
Allowing guests to participate by passing the rope and instilling well-wishes before being used for hand-fasting.
Another world-wide ritual but famous from Ireland, much like the rope warming.
Used around the world but particularly well-known in Irish and Scottish ceremonies.
Another non-legal component but popularly included by several cultures all around the world.
Personally written then spoken, sang, danced - however you wish to exchange them on your day
Love letters, a bottle of wine or other special tokens inside a box or barrel, which the couple seal shut and open on a given anniversary.
Performances before during and afterwards or pre-recorded music can set the mood and invite guests to participate.
Special readings and poetry, delivered by a special friend or family member can enrich your ceremony.